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Monday, April 11, 2005

At Last...


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There comes a time in every woman’s life when she wonders when (or sadly, if) she will ever get married. She’s dreamt about that moment since the time she was a little girl and used a pillowcase as a veil and wilted daises as her bouquet. She’s thought about who she would invite, where it would be, who would be her bridesmaids and where she would go to relax on her honeymoon. Like Monica on “Friends” she probably has a book somewhere, filled with pictures of rings and dresses and flowers and cakes. She knows what her wedding song will be and that she will cry when she walks down the aisle.

The only thing missing from the equation is one very important factor: the groom. Just a little minor detail that may have slipped our minds. When we are young, we don’t know who he will be but we dream of him and how happy he will make us and how happy we will make him. He is just a faceless man in a tuxedo at the end of the aisle and we can’t wait to meet him. For my friend Jennifer Lake, that face is no longer a blur but one that is clear and recognizable and smiling and ready to take her hand and become her husband. That man, I am very happy to say, is Jim Cozzarelli, and he has asked Jen to marry him and she has said yes. So Congratulations Jen and Jim, and may your dream become a wonderful reality….

19 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so lucky to have you has a friend! You comments are beautiful and touching! Your day will come!

April 11, 2005 1:47 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Grooms are over-rated. They just get in the way.

April 11, 2005 2:33 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jen Brennen:

I think you should have a personal classified section on this site. Like: do you like pina coladas . . . making love . . . rain . . . etc. Remember when you wrote that song out because I couldn't remember the lyrics?

April 11, 2005 2:37 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I enjoy reading your posts. You display intelligence, wit, and creativity reminiscent of Oscar Wilde - - "A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her;" or "Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination;" or "It is a very sad thing that nowadays there is so little useless information"

April 11, 2005 2:43 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congratulations Jen Lake. He is a very lucky man.

April 11, 2005 2:44 PM

 
Blogger JBSpeaks said...

Thanks for all the great comments. Unfortunately most of you never post your name "anonymous" and therefore I don't know who you are. And in the case of "Pina Coloda" mystery person, it's driving me nuts! Email me (I think I have an idea, but I could be wrong) with your identity please.

Someone sent a comment that was not published (I received it via email) about "out of town correspondents". Absolutely! If you have something to say, and as long as its not offensive, I will be happy to post it. But since many of you are from out of town, I have no idea who this "anonymous" person is either, so drop me an email and we'll talk.

Thanks for reading!!

April 11, 2005 4:56 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was tired of my lady, we'd been together too long.
Like a worn-out recording, of a favorite song.
So while she lay there sleeping, I read the paper in bed.
And in the personals column, there was this letter I read:

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I'm the lady you've looked for, write to me, and escape."

I didn't think about my lady, I know that sounds kind of mean.
But me and my old lady, had fallen into the same old dull routine.
So I wrote to the paper, took out a personal ad.
And though I'm nobody's poet, I thought it wasn't half-bad.

"Yes, I like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne.
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.
At a bar called O'Malley's, where we'll plan our escape."

So I waited with high hopes, then she walked in the place.
I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her face.
It was my own lovely lady, and she said, "Oh, it's you."
And we laughed for a moment, and I said, "I never knew"..

"That you liked Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

"If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
And the feel of the ocean, and the taste of champagne.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape."

April 11, 2005 6:45 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like being the mystery person.

April 11, 2005 6:45 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pina Coladas and Oscar Wilde have everything in common. Think about it.

April 11, 2005 6:47 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Can we have Jen Lake make a guest appearance and provide some insight into how the question was popped? Since this site involves the media, inquiring minds want to know.

April 11, 2005 7:07 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Interesting posts. Who is the literary snub? Oscar Wilde is so cliche. But, I do appeciate the thoroughness of the poster w/ the Pina Colada lyrics. Props to you. Oh, by the way, Jen your blog rocks.

April 11, 2005 7:41 PM

 
Blogger JBSpeaks said...

OK mystery writer...you have my attention. But I still don't know who you are. Any more hints?

And to the other poster who wants a commentary from Jen about the proposal? I'm working on it...

April 11, 2005 8:23 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who the hell is Oscar Wilde?

April 12, 2005 1:41 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jen,
It's me chill out.

April 12, 2005 5:10 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To the last poster:

Please come up with own stupid idea. You know that you're not the real "mystery person." Fess up and stop playing games. It's just not fair.

The real mystery person.

April 12, 2005 6:12 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am still waiting for Jen Lake's story of engagement. If it's not too exciting, just make it up; every other girl on the planet does.

You know the story: he romantically blind folded me and packed a bag with thoughtful clothes and items. We then went somewhere that sounded like an airport. All of a sudden, we were in Paris. Oh so romantic. In reality he just said over a tv dinner while watching a baseball game: "hey maybe we should just we get married. . . "

April 13, 2005 2:52 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ARE YOU KIDDING ME WITH THIS???

I thought this was a joke!!

STOP WATCHING OPRAH GIRLS!!!!

Jeffrey Lake

April 14, 2005 3:24 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why are you so against Oprah? She speaks for the millions out there without a voice. She is, well, OPRAH.

Maybe you could learn something by watching her show. It's on at 4 p.m. everyday. Actually, I think you already do, but you don't want your macho friends to find out.

An avid Oprah fan.

April 14, 2005 5:28 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

A true avid oprah fan would not be anonymous

June 04, 2005 1:41 PM

 

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